Status Updates by shellfish
Stop making it seem okay by just saying "oh yea no im not abusive im just feisty" or something because thats not an excuse. You cant always be his #1 priority he has a life and he has a right to keep it whether you like it or not.
If you'd get mad at a guy doing it to a girl, dont do it to a guy because i promise that they're no emotionally stronger than anyone else in the world.
Stop glorifying being abusive. This is aimed mostly at girls. Telling your guy that you'll murder them or stab them if they talk to other girls or something is abusive. Getting mad about every friend he has (thats female) and making him stop talking to them...is, In fact, abusive. Making him feel like s*** for spending time with friends or family instead of you is abusive. Hitting him with anything when youre mad at him is also abusive. And everything related to any of those is abusive.